Relationship counselling

At their best, our relationships can be sources of enormous pleasure, security and strength – but struggles are inevitable. As well as seeing individuals, I also offer relationship therapy: a weekly opportunity for couples to work through their differences and find new, healthier ways of navigating life’s challenges. This can take place in one of my practice rooms in London, or online. I offer online relationship counselling as I know it can be difficult enough to find a time when both partners can meet, without factoring in the additional complexity of travel time. Online sessions mean that couples can experience the benefits of relationship therapy without having to take several hours out of their busy schedules to do so - and of course it means that I am able to work with couples all over the world.

Every couple is unique, but you may be dealing with one or several of the following issues:

  • Fears that the spark has gone

  • Chronic conflict / arguments

  • Infidelity

  • Differing sex drives or other concerns around sex and intimacy

  • Struggles with conception

  • Disagreements around parenting and childcare

  • When one partner is unwell

  • Coming to terms with terminal illness

  • When one or both partners are neurodivergent

  • Adjusting to mid-life and ageing

  • Working out whether to separate

  • Managing separation

Whatever your concerns – whether there’s too much friction, or far too much silence – I believe that the only way out is through. I provide a neutral, comfortable space, where you can explore and process what’s really been going on, improve your communication, and find ways to cope with life’s unavoidable hurdles.

I welcome heterosexual and LGBTQIA+ couples, in short- or long-term pairings. I can also support non-romantic couples (e.g. platonic friendships, work colleagues, family pairs) who wish to improve their relationships. Please note, I only have space for two adult clients: I don’t work with minors (under 18) or larger groups.

Sessions are either 50 or 90 minutes long – we’ll decide what feels best for you both in our initial assessment meeting. Please click here for information about session fees.

If you’re interested in beginning relationship counselling with me, please fill in my contact form. I look forward to hearing from you.